iShowSpeed’s romantic life might be even more unpredictable than his streams. If there’s anything the chaotic YouTuber has taught us, it’s that nothing is ever really off-limits—not even his love life.
From scripted romances to messy breakups and unexpected calls, Speed’s history is filled with everything his fans crave: Drama, speculation, and enough confusion to make us wonder how much of it is real.
Here’s everything we know—or at least think we know—about the people Speed has been involved with.
Dream Wynter: The blind date
- Who is she? Social media personality introduced to Speed by a friend
- When were they dating? 2021, briefly reconnected in March 2024
- Why did they break up? Personality clashes
Dream Wynter is a social media personality who Speed first met in 2021, thanks to a setup by his friend Marcus. During a blind date, the two met and naturally filmed and shared it online. Dream and Speed seemed to have this fiery, sarcastic back-and-forth, and while it wasn’t exactly a fairytale romance, fans were hooked.
The relationship ended abruptly in October 2021, with Speed later detailing how their personalities clashed just a little too often. Then, out of nowhere, Dream reappeared during a live stream in 2024 when Speed called her as part of a Spin the Wheel game after losing a Fortnite wager (as one does).
The streamer accidentally leaked her contact number during the call—because, of course, he did—and what followed was a short but sarcastic exchange. According to Speed, they got in touch afterward and sorted their issues, though what exactly that means is anyone’s guess.
Ava Villain: Sparks that didn’t last
- Who is she? Trans activist and YouTuber.
- When were they dating? Late 2021
- Why did they break up? Lifestyle differences
Ava Villain, a trans YouTuber and activist, was one of the more controversial partners Speed had. The two were seen together multiple times on his streams, and Ava was notably supportive during one of Speed’s notorious bans from YouTube. Despite this, their romance didn’t pan out.
It seems like the primary reason for their breakup was lifestyle differences. While Ava embraced her activist role and pursued meaningful content, Speed’s lifestyle, persona, and fanbase didn’t always align with her values.
Though Speed’s audience was often dismissive of their relationship, Ava’s presence and support during such a crucial period of Speed’s career proves there was genuine care between them.
Ermony Renee: Short and sweet
- Who is she? Aspiring actress and TikTok content creator
- When were they dating? Mid-2023
- Why did they break up? Incompatibility and conflicting schedules
Ermony Renee briefly dated Speed in mid-2023. Their fling was fleeting with plenty of cute moments on stream—such as Speed attempting to teach her his trademark over-the-top reactions—but things didn’t last long.
They officially broke up after Speed called her live on stream. Ermony stated that Speed and his community were disrespectful to her, and that the relationship wouldn’t work.
In a rare reflective moment, Speed told his audience, “sometimes, you just can’t make things work, no matter how much you want it to.” Fans have speculated there might have been more to it, but for now, both parties have kept details tightly under wraps.
Kristine Arntzen: Just flirting or more?
- Who is she? Social media influencer from Norway
- When were they dating? Late 2023
- Why did they break up? Mostly rumor-based, no confirmation
Kristine met Speed in Norway during his travels in late 2023. A social media influencer and travel vlogger, Kristine offered a glimpse into the influencer lifestyle, but her brief appearances with Speed were more of an adventure. The chemistry was clear, and fans quickly assumed they were a couple.
Kristine dismissed the rumors, saying they were “just friends” and playfully poking fun at fan assumptions. Although there might have been genuine sparks, the connection quickly faded, and they haven’t been seen together since.
Aaliyah Wasco: Alleged cheating
@ishowflightclips they finally playing fortnite together😮💨 #ishowspeed #aaliyah #gurl #fortnite #duos #fyp #ishowflightclips ♬ original sound – ⚡️😈
- Who is she? Social media influencer
- When were they dating? Early 2024
- Why did they break up? Alleged cheating incident
Moving along, Aaliyah Wasco, was another significant chapter in Speed’s dating timeline. Aaliyah is a social media influencer who began appearing together on-stream in early 2024, and their flirting quickly won fans over.
The vibes were good—until rumors of infidelity began circulating, and their chemistry visibly deteriorated. Eventually, Speed made the dramatic reveal that Aaliyah had cheated on him, leading to an emotional breakup broadcasted for everyone to see.
It was raw, messy, and exactly what fans expected from a Speed relationship—complete with a tearful “Why do I even try?” moment that had fans empathizing, albeit unsure on what really happened.
Amy Flamy: The scripted romance
- Who is she? South Korean influencer and TikTok star
- When were they dating? Spring of 2024
- Why did they break up? Claimed the relationship was a “scripted content experiment”
Amy Flamy was one of Speed’s most headline-grabbing relationships, and not just because of how public it was. A South Korean influencer and TikTok star known for her high-energy dance content, Amy was almost a perfect match for Speed’s vibe.
The two met in Seoul in the spring of 2024 when Speed arrived for a planned collaboration. But what unfolded on stream seemed more like a K-drama, complete with dates, awkwardly romantic declarations, and plenty of stolen glances. It was cute—at least until Amy and Speed had a messy breakup on a live stream.
@kaispeedross Amy is tired of her relationship with Speed and is crying on live🥲 #ishowspeed #amy #ishowspeedamy #amyflamy #breakup #fyp #foryou ♬ original sound – KaiSpeedRoss✨️
Amy later claimed that the “relationship” was a content experiment. Although she admitted there was chemistry, she explained that Speed couldn’t commit, which strained their interactions. Whether real or staged, fans were entertained and concerned as they tried to separate performance from genuine emotions.
Who is iShowSpeed’s girlfriend today?
- Who is she? Actress, nursing student, and social media influencer
- When did they start dating? Late 2024 (confirmed December 29)
Vanessa Anne Williams is iShowSpeed’s current girlfriend and is seen by many fans as his most well-rounded partner to date.
A former child actress best known for playing Rose Rita Pottinger in the 2018 Jack Black-starring film The House with a Clock in Its Walls, Vanessa entered the spotlight at just 12 years old. Now 20, she’s balancing a career in nursing with a fast-growing social media presence—boasting over 1.6 million followers on TikTok and nearly 1 million on Instagram.
Rumors of their relationship began swirling in October 2024, when Speed announced he was seeing someone, but without sharing any more details. It wasn’t until December 29 that the couple made things official during a Fortnite livestream with Kai Cenat.
Vanessa introduced herself to Speed’s chat after bringing him some homemade curry chicken and rice, paired with pineapple ginger juice. After a brief exchange, they immediately professed love for each other during the broadcast, suggesting their relationship has been ongoing for a while now. “He treats me like I deserve to be treated,” she said at one point during the livestream.
The couple first connected through mutual friends in the entertainment industry. Fans have since praised their chemistry as some of the most genuine yet, describing Vanessa as a steadying influence in Speed’s otherwise chaotic world.
Love, live, stream: iShowSpeed’s ever-changing romantic life
Whether it’s a blind date turned viral moment or a surprise “I love you” mid-stream, iShowSpeed’s love life keeps surprising as it unfolds in real time, shaped by the same chaotic energy that built his brand.
As long as he’s streaming, there’ll be rumors, revelations, and maybe—just maybe—a bit of real romance amid the madness.
