iShowSpeed’s romantic life might be even more unpredictable than his streams. If there’s anything the chaotic YouTuber has taught us, it’s that nothing is ever really off-limits—not even his love life.
From scripted romances to messy breakups and unexpected calls, Speed’s history is filled with everything his fans crave: Drama, speculation, and enough confusion to make us wonder how much of it is real.
Here’s everything we know—or at least think we know—about the people Speed has been involved with.
Dream Wynter: The blind date
- Who is she? Social media personality introduced to Speed by a friend
- When were they dating? 2021, briefly reconnected in March 2024
- Why did they break up? Personality clashes
Dream Wynter is a social media personality who Speed first met in 2021, thanks to a setup by his friend Marcus. During a blind date, the two met and naturally filmed and shared it online. Dream and Speed seemed to have this fiery, sarcastic back-and-forth, and while it wasn’t exactly a fairytale romance, fans were hooked.
The relationship ended abruptly in October 2021, with Speed later detailing how their personalities clashed just a little too often. Then, out of nowhere, Dream reappeared during a live stream in 2024 when Speed called her as part of a Spin the Wheel game after losing a Fortnite wager (as one does).
The streamer accidentally leaked her contact number during the call—because, of course, he did—and what followed was a short but sarcastic exchange. According to Speed, they got in touch afterward and sorted their issues, though what exactly that means is anyone’s guess.
Ava Villain: Sparks that didn’t last
- Who is she? Trans activist and YouTuber.
- When were they dating? Late 2021
- Why did they break up? Lifestyle differences
Ava Villain, a trans YouTuber and activist, was one of the more controversial partners Speed had. The two were seen together multiple times on his streams, and Ava was notably supportive during one of Speed’s notorious bans from YouTube. Despite this, their romance didn’t pan out.
It seems like the primary reason for their breakup was lifestyle differences. While Ava embraced her activist role and pursued meaningful content, Speed’s lifestyle, persona, and fanbase didn’t always align with her values.
Though Speed’s audience was often dismissive of their relationship, Ava’s presence and support during such a crucial period of Speed’s career proves there was genuine care between them.
Ermony Renee: Short and sweet
- Who is she? Aspiring actress and TikTok content creator
- When were they dating? Mid-2023
- Why did they break up? Incompatibility and conflicting schedules
Ermony Renee briefly dated Speed in mid-2023. Their fling was fleeting with plenty of cute moments on stream—such as Speed attempting to teach her his trademark over-the-top reactions—but things didn’t last long.
They officially broke up after Speed called her live on stream. Ermony stated that Speed and his community were disrespectful to her, and that the relationship wouldn’t work.
In a rare reflective moment, Speed told his audience, “sometimes, you just can’t make things work, no matter how much you want it to.” Fans have speculated there might have been more to it, but for now, both parties have kept details tightly under wraps.
Kristine Arntzen: Just flirting or more?
- Who is she? Social media influencer from Norway
- When were they dating? Late 2023
- Why did they break up? Mostly rumor-based, no confirmation
Kristine met Speed in Norway during his travels in late 2023. A social media influencer and travel vlogger, Kristine offered a glimpse into the influencer lifestyle, but her brief appearances with Speed were more of an adventure. The chemistry was clear, and fans quickly assumed they were a couple.
Kristine dismissed the rumors, saying they were “just friends” and playfully poking fun at fan assumptions. Although there might have been genuine sparks, the connection quickly faded, and they haven’t been seen together since.
Aaliyah Wasco: Alleged cheating
@ishowflightclips they finally playing fortnite together😮💨 #ishowspeed #aaliyah #gurl #fortnite #duos #fyp #ishowflightclips ♬ original sound – ⚡️😈
- Who is she? Social media influencer
- When were they dating? Early 2024
- Why did they break up? Alleged cheating incident
Moving along, Aaliyah Wasco, was another significant chapter in Speed’s dating timeline. Aaliyah is a social media influencer that began appearing together on-stream in early 2024, and their flirting quickly won fans over.
The vibes were good—until rumors of infidelity began circulating, and their chemistry visibly deteriorated. Eventually, Speed made the dramatic reveal that Aaliyah had cheated on him, leading to an emotional breakup broadcasted for everyone to see.
It was raw, messy, and exactly what fans expected from a Speed relationship—complete with a tearful “Why do I even try?” moment that had fans empathizing, albeit unsure on what really happened.
Amy Flamy: The scripted romance
- Who is she? South Korean influencer and TikTok star
- When were they dating? Spring of 2024
- Why did they break up? Claimed the relationship was a “scripted content experiment”
Amy Flamy was one of Speed’s most headline-grabbing relationships, and not just because of how public it was. A South Korean influencer and TikTok star known for her high-energy dance content, Amy was almost a perfect match for Speed’s vibe.
The two met in Seoul in the spring of 2024 when Speed arrived for a planned collaboration. But what unfolded on stream seemed more like a K-drama, complete with dates, awkwardly romantic declarations, and plenty of stolen glances. It was cute—at least until Amy and Speed had a messy breakup on a live stream.
@kaispeedross Amy is tired of her relationship with Speed and is crying on live🥲 #ishowspeed #amy #ishowspeedamy #amyflamy #breakup #fyp #foryou ♬ original sound – KaiSpeedRoss✨️
Amy later claimed that the “relationship” was a content experiment. Although she admitted there was chemistry, she explained that Speed couldn’t commit, which strained their interactions. Whether real or staged, fans were entertained and concerned as they tried to separate performance from genuine emotions.
Who is iShowSpeed’s girlfriend today?
So, who is Speed dating today? Well, that’s a question with no definitive answer—at least for now. In recent streams, Speed has remained tight-lipped about his personal life, often shrugging off the questions and fans alike to chill.
But that hasn’t stopped the speculation. Fans continue to look for clues, dissecting every interaction, every like and unfollow on social media, every new girl on his stream.
Could there be someone behind the scenes, a relationship Speed is keeping under wraps to avoid the chaos that comes with public scrutiny? It’s entirely possible—if there’s one thing we’ve learned, it’s that Speed is a master at playing his cards close to his chest.
Speed’s romantic life
iShowSpeed’s dating history is filled with scripted events, real emotions, and fan-driven conspiracies. He’s a young celebrity navigating the pressures of fame, newfound wealth, and relationships in the digital age—doing a seemingly good job. Whether real or staged, fans can’t get enough of each rumored romance.
The takeaway? Speed’s love life is much like his career—full of unpredictable turns, drama, and just as chaotic. As long as there’s a camera in front of him and an audience watching, we can be sure that rumors will keep swirling, one relationship at a time.
